Astrology teaches us the greatest lesson in humility: Time (Kaal) is the only true king.
When your planetary periods (Dashas) are negative, even your closest friends will pretend they don't know you. When your Dashas turn positive, your biggest enemies will claim to be your best friends.
This is the illusion (Maaya) of the material world.
If you are going through a dark planetary period right now, do not beg people for respect. Do not chase relationships that are running away from you. Put your head down, do your Karma, and wait for the wheel to turn.
When Jupiter or the Sun finally rises in your chart, the same people who ignored you will proudly tell the world that they know you. Stay humble in your rise, and graceful in your fall.